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Making the Most of Being Stuck at Home

Covid-19 Hibernation Check List

Panic and fear has taken a firm foothold in the entire world. It’s normal. We are all feeling various levels of worry. However, it’s also important to realize that panic, fear and worry don’t serve us in the end.   Responding from a place of fear and anxiety narrows your focus and we are less able to problem solve  and think effectively.  Fear and anxiety set off the stress response and that in turn, dampens our immune system. This is when we need to turn to the power of hope.  When we feel hopeful, we stand united, work together, and are more creative in finding solutions. Hope has helped us through much in the last few decade and it can work again.

May your choices reflect your hopes, not your fears.
— Nelson Mandela

 Covid-19 Hibernation Check List

Panic and fear have taken a firm foothold in the entire world. It’s normal. We are all feeling various levels of worry. However, it’s also important to realize that panic, fear and worry don’t serve us in the end.   Responding from a place of fear and anxiety narrows your focus and we are less able to problem solve and think effectively.  Fear and anxiety set off the stress response and that in turn, dampens our immune system. This is when we need to turn to the power of hope.  When we feel hopeful, we stand united, work together, and are more creative in finding solutions. Hope has helped us through much in the last few decades and it can work again.


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Hope starts with looking at the positives.  As the WHO (World Health Organization) stated on March 5, 80% of those infected survive without any special care. Although we can’t change the fact that we are all facing this challenge, we can focus on what we have control over and that is choosing our response from a place of calm and hope.  Of course, we should take general safety measures like washing our hands, avoiding unnecessary travel and social gatherings, not touching our faces, coughing and sneezing into our elbows, getting plenty of rest, eating healthy and staying well hydrated.  But we also need to remember that just as the sky underneath is still blue on a cloudy day, there are some positives underneath all this chaos. So how do we turn to the positives?  Here are some strategies to get you started!


 

The Gift of Time:

If we’ve had to take time off, think of it as a gift of time! Haven’t we all complained of not having enough vacation time? So treat this time off as a special time to get through that book waiting to be read or even take an online course to expand our skillset. Check out iTunesU, Udemy, Khan Academy, Coursera and edX to name a few. There are even many free YouTube videos to learn new skills, including sharpening those cooking skills.

Use this gift of time to engage the whole family.  Clear out the clutter in the house and do it with some fun; blast the music or make it into a family game challenge. Why not have a themed movie night with family favourites? Or get the family moving with a dance party and take turns DJ-ing! Get the idea?


 

Build Healthy Habits!

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Perhaps we could use the time to improve our health and build more healthy habits like going for a daily walk in the morning or starting a meditation practice. It can help to add some visualization of a future filled with health and fun activities with friends and family. Even consider the practice of loving-kindness meditation. (See this blog post for a free meditation you can do.)

There are many companies with apps and on-line subscriptions that offer free classes and fitness programs such as Nike Training Club and  7 Minute Workout for fitness and HeadspaceCalm and The Tapping Solution for meditations and stress. This is a great time to try out a  variety of new healthy activities at home!

 

 

Set Healthy Boundaries 

When we find it hard to distract our mind from the media overload, going for a walk in nature can be helpful and so can a practice like qigong, yoga or tai chi. It’s also important to limit the ongoing chatter about Covid-19 to give your brain’s stress centre a break. Why not set limits on when and how we will talk about it with family and friends? It’s ok to let them know we’d rather focus on something positive. Try turning devices and news feeds off a couple of hours before going to bed and focus on nourishing activities like those above, watching a funny movie or even games night with the family. This will also help with getting better sleep. 


 

Start the Day Off Right!

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In the morning, start off with a calming routine like gratitude practice and mindful movement like qigong.  Hold off on checking the news until later in the morning..... it will still be there! Take breaks to breathe from your belly and fill your body with that feeling of hope. In fact, just keep thinking of the word “hope” and what it means and feels like for a few minutes each day. As the saying goes, what we focus on grows! 


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Disclaimer: The content in this blog is not intended to constitute or be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or other qualified health care provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have read in this blog or on this website.

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5 TED Talks to Motivate and Inspire!

Leadership, Happiness, Purpose and more! Check out these amazing 5 TED Talks!

With a little humour, some inspiration and a few life lessons these five inspiring TED Talks will spark motivation and get you feeling a little happier.
Bookmark and re-visit them whenever you need a little pick-me-up!

Leadership, Happiness, Purpose and more! Check out these amazing 5 TED Talks!

With a little humour, some inspiration and a few life lessons these five inspiring TED Talks will spark motivation and get you feeling a little happier.

Bookmark and re-visit them whenever you need a little pick-me-up!



  1. Drew Dudley: Everyday Leadership

    Drew Dudley’s talk shows that we all have the ability to significantly impact the lives of others through small gestures.


 

2. Shawn Achor: The Happiness Secret to Better Work

Shawn Achor's hilarious and inspiring talk shows us what strategies work to cultivate happiness. It’s also one of the most viewed TED Talks of all time.


 

3. Jill Bolte Taylor: My Stroke of Insight

Jill Bolte Taylor, neuroscientist reflects on her first-hand experience of a stroke, recovery and what it taught her about our brain and our ability to heal. This is one of the most viewed TED Talks of all time

 

 

4. Louie Schwartzberg: Nature Beauty Gratitude

Having trouble feeling that sense of gratitude?  This TED Talk will certainly change that with the most inspiring footage of our beautiful world.


 

5. Simon Sinek: How Great Leaders Inspire Action

Simon Sinek’s talk is another one of the most viewed TED Talks of all time and shows the importance of purpose in leadership and life.


 

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Disclaimer: The content in this blog is not intended to constitute or be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or other qualified health care provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have read in this blog or on this website.


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Amp Your Happiness with Kindness and Compassion

Free 10-Minute Loving-kindness Meditation!

Compassion is the feeling you get when you witness someone in need and want to help alleviate their suffering. It cultivates kindness & kindness has been shown to activate our vagus nerve and reward circuitry.  Practicing compassion strengthens our social connections leading to more happiness. Compassion activates our parasympathetic system resulting in a slower heart rate and less stress when we are confronted with challenges. Compassion also makes us happier by increasing our social connections and making us feel similar to others. Find out how to strengthen your compassion muscle below!

Free 10-Minute Loving-kindness Meditation!

Compassion is the feeling you get when you witness someone in need and want to help alleviate their suffering. It cultivates kindness & kindness has been shown to activate our vagus nerve and reward circuitry in our brain.   Practicing compassion strengthens our social connections leading to more happiness. Compassion activates our parasympathetic system resulting in a slower heart rate and less stress when we are confronted with challenges. Compassion also makes us happier by increasing our social connections and making us feel similar to others.


Anyone can learn and practice compassion. One way to flex our compassion muscle is with loving-kindness meditation.  In a study done by  Fredrickson and colleagues, people who practiced loving-kindness meditation daily for seven weeks reported a steady increase in their daily experience of positive emotions, such as joy, gratitude, contentment, hope, and love. They also reported greater life satisfaction and lower depressive symptoms compared to when they started.  Check out the 10- Minute Loving Kindness Meditation below.  It’s a great start to any week and a great way to start 2020!


Know someone who could use a bit of stress relief?  Share this post and spread some joy! ☺️


Disclaimer: The content in this blog is not intended to constitute or be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or other qualified health care provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have read in this blog or on this website.


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